I finally got back to Tennessee after 5 long years! And what a trip it was. I just have to share some of the major highlights with you.
I flew into Memphis, TN and met in person not one but two cousins I had talked to on the phone a few years ago. Both Dianne and Leatha were kind and generous, and shared their family photos and funeral programs, which I handily scanned with my portable scanner & laptop. Here is a picture of me and my new cousins, after they treated me to a fabulous meal at the world famous Rendezvous bar-b-que restaurant:
My cousin Leatha’s late husband was one of my Holt ancestors, and she shared many family documents that he saved. One of the most incredible was a Bible record of deaths (the bible was owned by his grandfather) that for the first time, listed my enslaved ancestor Malinda’s death! WOW.
Later during my trip, I took pictures and video at the cemetery (Cawthon Cemetery in Hardin County, TN) where Malinda is buried along with many of her descendants:
After a night in Memphis, I drove the next day the two hours to Hardin County, and spent the rest of the day at the courthouse, where I would have one of the most mind-blowing discoveries of my entire 13 years of research. While perusing Chancery Court original loose files, I found a case where my two enslaved ggggrandparents, Mason and Rachel Garrett/Garrard, both gave depositions. This 200+ page file also included the names of their slaveowner and where he got them from (his wife’s father)! It had the slaveowner’s will and inventory (listing them and their children) and many, many many relevant details about that time and place.
Did I mention this had been one of my brick walls where I had been unable to find the slaveowners? Two other important points: they actually lived in the neighboring Decatur County, but the plaintiff lived in Hardin so that was where the case was filed (thus, always look in neighboring counties!) And, although this file was started in 1870, it had information going back to 1854 (thus, researching post-emancipation files can lead you to the slaveowner).
The file involved a lawsuit between the daughter of the slaveowner and the administrator of her father and uncle’s estate. The suit lasted about 5 years. I’ve posted before about the value of court records, and yesterday I gave a well-received lecture at a local genealogy group about using court records to uncover the lives of slaves. Although these are not beginner records, when you’re ready, please do dive in!!! There are so many jewels to be found.
I spent two days in the ancestral birth town of my maternal grandparents, Hooker’s Bend, Tennessee (which is in Hardin County). I stayed with my lovely cousin Evelyn, and enjoyed the treat of her southern home cooking and charm. I visited several other cousins while I was there, and one even had a photo of my grandfather that I’d never seen before:
Saturday I spent a few hours at the public library, where a kind courthouse worker allowed me to peruse old circuit court records (Thank you soooo much, Tammy) Then I headed 45 minutes away to Decatur County, TN to meet–yes, you guessed it–another new cousin, Emaline. We ate and laughed and shared information and I have to tell you again how gracious all of my extended family members are.
The trip closed out with me heading back to Memphis for one final evening with cousin Gloria. This was an A+-Super research trip and I came back enthusiastic, exhausted, but feeling blessed beyond belief.
I am still riding on the ancestor’s wings.







Dear Robyn,
You are truly blessed. My Grandmother always said that sometimes God seperates us just so we can find our way back to each other. He makes the road visable he sets us before it. All we have to do is walk it. Many blessings to you and your family.
Peace
Rebekah
Wow, Robyn! What a wonderful, fulfilling, and profitable trip for you! I can feel your excitement and your writing takes us right there with you. Congratulations on all your new finds, and on meeting so many new cousins!
Renate
Congratulations on such a fantastic trip! I’m looking forward to getting down to Mississippi soon to see my cousin, my GG grandmother’s grave and check out those chancery court records. Thanks for advising that they are not beginner records. Maybe you can give me a few tips before I go!
Riding on the wings Ancestors ~ ah, I know that feeling! So happy for you Robyn, there is nothing like going home, is it?!:-)
Luckie.
So happy for you! What a great find.
What a wonderful experience! Thanks for sharing.
Wow, that does sound like a wonderful trip. So successful and productive – meeting family members and learning all sorts of new things.
This is so very cool! I think it’s so much more exciting to find information in a document purely by chance. I’m compiling a list of genealogy “Eureka” moments and will add the events of your Tennessee trip to that list. You’re the best!